Kama sutra and dirty talk: How to improve your sex experience with amazing positions for couples and tantric techniques. A sex guide for beginners for improving your intimate relationship by J. Savannah Clark

Author:J. Savannah Clark [Clark, J. Savannah]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2020-04-26T00:00:00+00:00

Chapter 11.

How Exciting It Is to Talk Dirty

Aside from enjoying the pleasures of sex, what other things do you stand to gain from dirty talk? There are quite a lot of benefits that come with talking dirty that may not be obvious to those who do not practice it.

First of all, understand that a sexual relationship between two consenting adults has its ups and downs. For example, marriage is meant to be the happy union of two adults who love and support each other. However, many marriages are either not as the individuals expected them to be or are on the verge of a divorce. One of the major reasons for the unhappiness and misunderstandings in marriages is the communication gap between couples. And nothing widens the communication gap in marriages more than a lack of physical and emotional intimacy. And often those intimacies are connected as the quality of emotional intimacy can quickly deteriorate if physical intimacy is always a boring routine.

The closer couples get physically, the easier they can communicate their concerns, fears, worries, doubts, and hopes to each other. Sex is one of the natural ways physical intimacy can be greatly improved between couples. If you have sex great, exciting, and a fun activity you and your partner look forward to you both automatically improving your physical and emotional closeness. You also improve the quality of your communication. If you can freely tell your partner how you want to be pleasured and what you want to do to them sexually, it will be a lot easier to share with them whatever other concerns you have in life and in the relationship.

Now that you get the general idea of it, let’s go into a bit more detail about all the reasons you should consider including dirty talk into your sexual relationship.

1. It allows you to communicate what you want: Saying what you want during sex is vital for your enjoyment. Telling your partner how much you enjoy what they are doing when they are doing it will encourage them to do it more. “I love it when you do that,” tells your partner to keep doing whatever it is they are doing. Sitting down to discuss or have a conversation about what your sexual preferences are can take away the fun and spontaneity from sex. But dirty talk can communicate the same preferences without making as big of an issue out of it as it would be in a normal conversation.

2. It helps your partner to know what’s on your mind: Not many people can read minds. Your partner may be giving their all but doing all the wrong things and still thinking they are giving you pleasure. If you don’t speak up, they probably won’t know. Sex, for many people, is a riddle that they can’t solve. What does he mean by that facial expression? Is that moaning a good sign or a bad one? Does she want me to continue doing that or what? Instead of

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